THERAPY IN ANOTHER STATE

If you need counseling help but do not have great financial resources, don't give up. You need to do some research. But, this is not a time to look on the internet. The listings are not that helpful, since many clinics don't have websites. Take out your yellow pages, and look under SOCIAL AND HUMAN SERVICES. This is a list of mostly nonprofit organizations. Look for a national organization called Family Service of America , look for hospital clinics, and look for community clinics. You can probably get low cost psychotherapy there.

If you have sexual problems which stem from your early family life, a licensed therapist who is not a certified sex therapist will be able to help you with psychotherapy for some time.

At the point at which you need help with sexual dysfunction, it is best to get a specialist. It is more difficult to find a certified sex therapist in a setting which offers therapy inexpensively. But check, because some cities have hospitals with sex therapy clinics.

Sex Therapy Resources

If you need a credentialed sex therapist and do not live nearby, there are two organizations which can help you find a qualified professional:

The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
P O Box 5488
Richmond, Virginia 23220-0488
Phone (804)644-3288 Fax (804) 644-3290
Call them for a list. Their website currently does not contain all their certified sex therapists..
http://www.aasect.org

The American Board of Sexology at www.sexhelp.org

Websites for Health and Sexuality Questions

www.hisandherhealth.com: a lot of good information on health and sexuality
www.sexualhealth.com: good information on sexuality and also disability
www.inciid.org: large site with information on infertility
www.goodvibes.com: site with sexual books, movies, toys



Resources for Sexual Trauma

Survivors of Incest Anonymous

P O Box 21817
Baltimore, Maryland 21222
www.siawso.org

VOICES in Action
(Victims of Incest Can Emerge Survivors)
P O Box 148309
Chicago, Illinois 60614
773-327-1500
voices-action.org

The Healing Woman Foundation
P O Box 28040
San Jose, California
408-246-1788
www.healingwoman.org

Sexual Assault Recovery Anonymous

PO Box 16
Surrey,BC, V35424 Canada
604-584-2626

The Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network
(800)656-4673
Sexual Addiction

The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity
www.ncsac.org

Resources for Sexual Pain

National Vulvodynia Association
PO Box 4491
Silver Spring, Maryland 20914
301-299-0775
www.nva.org

Vulvar Pain Foundation

203 ½ North Main St. #203
Graham, North Carolina 27253
336-226-0704
www.vulvarpainfoundation.org

Infertility Resources

RESOLVE

1310 Broadway
Somerville, Massachusetts 02144
617-623-0744

Infertility Network

160 Pickering Street
Toronto, Ontario, Canada M4E3J7
416-691-3611

Infertility Awareness Association of Canada

523-774 Echo Lane
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada K1S5N8
613-730-1322


A Brief List of Suggested Books for Sexual Problems


Female Sexuality

Sally Foley, Sally Kope, and Dennis Sugrue. Sex Matters for Women: A Complete Guide to Taking Care of Your Sexual Self. Guilford, 2002.

Lonnie Barbach. For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality. Doubleday, 1976.

Shiela Kitzinger. Women's Experience of Sex. Penguin, 1984.

Julia Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo. Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women. Simon and Schuster, 1992.

Jennifer Berman and Laura Berman. For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Sexual Dysfunction and Reclaiming Your Sex Life. Henry Holt, 2001.


Male Sexuality

Barry and Emily McCarthy. Male Sexual Awareness. Carroll and Graf. 1998.

Bernie Zilbergeld. The New Male Sexuality. Random House, 1999.

Helen Kaplan Singer. How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation. Brunner/Mazel, 1989.


Sexual Enrichment

Aline Zoldbrod and Lauren Dockett. Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On. New Harbinger, 2002.

Margo Anand. The Art of Sexual Ecstasy. Putnam, 1991.

Patricia Love. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. Penguin, 1994.

David Schnarch. Passionate Marriage. Henry Holt, l998.

 

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