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Psychologists share the contents of their self-help shelves.
By Laurie Meyers
Monitor Staff
Monitor on Psychology, American Psychological Association,
January 2008, Vol 39, No. 1
Print version: page 26

Anyone who has ever watched "Oprah" knows that the
American public has a voracious appetite for self-help. And according
to a 2000 study in the journal Psychotherapy (Vol. 37, No. 4,
pages 370-377), about 85 percent of psychologists recommend self-help
books to their clients. But with all the books out there-and more
being published as you read this-how can a practitioner know which
ones to recommend?
The 2,000-plus tomes published every year are of widely varying
quality. Many may be useless yet essentially benign, but some
carry harmful messages, says John C. Norcross, PhD, alluding to
a recent bestseller that proclaims that positive thoughts attract
positive events and negative thoughts attract bad events.
"So if something bad happens to you, it's your fault!"
exclaims Norcross, the lead author of the Psychotherapy article
and an expert on self-help and bibliotherapy.
Psychology has an obligation not only to warn clients about volumes
that don't work but also to steer them away from ones that can
be destructive, he says.
Norcross's research has found no correlation between how popular
a book is and how effective its treatment methods are.
"Ninety-five percent of self-help books are published without
any scientific evidence to support that they work as self-help,"
he says.
In the absence of empirical evidence, practitioners are forced
to rely on personal experience of what works and colleague recommendations.
There are many good books out there-too many for one article to
chronicle. However, in the spirit of colleague recommendation,
here are a few member favorites.
Anneliese Singh, PhD, assistant professor at the University
of Georgia and a private practitioner in Atlanta.
Singh's eclectic list includes titles that tell the real stories
of people's lives:
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"Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search
for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia,"
by Elizabeth Gilbert (Penguin, 2007). Gilbert's humorous, wide-ranging
tale brings home the challenges of the search for self and the
pain of loss. Reading about someone else's struggles illustrates
the realization that these are universal themes and the client
is not alone, says Singh.
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"YELL-Oh Girls: Emerging Voices Explore
Culture, Identity and Growing Up Asian American," edited
by Vickie Nam (Harper Paperbacks, 2001). Clients usually find
one story that speaks to them in this collection written by
Asian-American girls and women. "They really connect with
the women in the book and start talking about their own problems
through the characters," Singh explains. "That's really
helpful-we've been taught [as Asian- Americans] not to speak
about our experiences."
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"Asian American X: An Intersection of
Twenty-First Century Asian-American Voices," edited
by Arar Han and John Hsu (University of Michigan Press, 2004).
These stories speak to the search for identity and the tension
between Eastern and Western values. Singh often recommends this
title to her gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender clients
because one of the stories discusses how coming out is often
more difficult for Asian Americans than others due to cultural
norms about sexuality and gender.
David Ranks, PhD, practitioner and University of Utah medical
school professor.
In his practice, Ranks emphasizes mindfulness, which he calls
"the most powerful tool I have come across in therapy."
His recommendations include:
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"Beginning Mindfulness: Learning the
Way of Awareness," by Andrew Weiss (New World Library,
2004). "A very practical step-by-step guide to mindfulness
training," says Ranks.
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"The Miracle of Mindfulness,"
by Thich Nhat Hanh (Beacon Press, 1999). More than a how-to,
this book conveys the joyfulness and playfulness that can come
from mindfulness in everyday life.
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"Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate
Living," by Pema Chodron (Shambhala Classics, 2001).
Chodron writes about a Tibetan Buddhist technique, tonglen,
in which one breathes in and pictures the most painful and difficult
things and then breathes out and pictures clarity, calm and
peace-a practice Ranks finds helpful for patients who want to
release anger and other negative emotions.
Fran Grossman, PhD, a Boston University professor emeritus
and private practitioner.
Grossman, who mostly treats people with histories of childhood
trauma, recommends:
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"Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath
of Violence-from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror,"
by Judith Herman, MD, (Rivers Oran Press/Pandora List, 2001).
This book's historical background, which details how childhood
abuse and other traumas were often not acknowledged until recently,
is essential in helping clients understand people's reluctance
to talk about these topics, believes Grossman. The book's stories
help patients realize that they aren't alone, she adds.
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"Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide
for Men Recovering From Sexual Child Abuse," by Mike
Lew (Harper Paperbacks, 2004). As one of the first books specifically
for men, says Goldman, "it's very sympathetic and empowering."
Lew discusses the ways in which society hampers male victims'
ability to acknowledge abuse and get treatment.
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"Sex Smart: How
Your Childhood Shaped Your Sexual Life and What to Do About
It," by Aline P. Zoldbrod, PhD, (New Harbinger,
1998; IUniverse, 2009). The book covers touch in infancy, overcoming
negative emotions about one's body, and the ways people learn
about gender roles. "It's appropriate for anybody, but
I use it for people who are particularly struggling with sexual
issues," Grossman says.
Sari Shepphird, PhD, a Los Angeles practitioner
Shepphird, who specializes in eating disorders, says many people
come into treatment not knowing much about their illness. But
through patient education, they can gain "a sense of hope
and direction," she says. She recommends:
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"Anorexia Nervosa: A Guide to Recovery,"
by Lindsay Hall and Monika Ostroff (Gurze Books, 1998), written
by two people who have recovered from the condition. In addition
to sharing their experiences, the writers give an overview of
the treatment research. Shepphird also recommends
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"Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery,"
(Gurze Books, 1999), which takes a similar approach with bulimia.
"Hunger for Understanding: A Workbook for Helping Young
People to Understand and Overcome Anorexia Nervosa," by
Alison Evors and Sophie Nesbitt (Wiley, 2005). Written for adolescents
and teenagers, the book features activities, question-and-answer
portions and material readers can use to open up discussion
either in group situations or in one-on-one therapy. Shepphird
says the workbook uses a cognitive-behavioral and psychoeducational-based
approach.
Simon Rego, PsyD, attending psychologist at Montefiore Medical
Center in New York City
Rego recommends books that draw on the techniques of cognitive
behavioral therapy:
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"Overcoming Depression One Step at a
Time: The New Behavioral Activation Approach to Getting Your
Life Back," by Michael E. Addis, PhD, and Christopher
R. Martell, PhD, (New Harbinger Publications, 2004). The book
encourages readers to focus on activities that give them pleasure
and tackle tasks that give them a sense of accomplishment, starting
with easier ones, such as those found in daily routines. "It's
amazing how when you start doing something productive, your
motivation will increase," says Rego. "Activity often
precedes motivation, rather than follows it."
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"The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook:
Proven Techniques to Overcoming Your Fears," by Martin
M. Antony, PhD, and Richard P. Swinson, PhD, (New Harbinger
Publications, 2000). It uses an active cognitive behavioral
approach, says Rego. The workbook guides socially anxious people
through skill-building exercises, so that they can face stressful
or anxiety-inducing activities and working their way through
them.
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"Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts: How to
Gain Control of Your OCD," by Christine Purdon, PhD,
(New Harbinger Publications, 2005). Rego says this book discusses
not just compulsions but also addresses primarily obsessive
themes that are often not included in other books such as aggressive
thoughts about sex and harming self or others, and scrupulosity-the
excessive concern with morality and religion such as a continuous
fear of sinning or angering God and being condemned to hell.
The book emphasizes several cognitive strategies that can help
people reassess obsessive thoughts and better understand the
difference between having a bad thought and committing a bad
deed.
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"The 60-Second Shrink: 101 Strategies
for Staying Sane in a Crazy World," by Arnold A. Lazarus,
PhD, and Clifford N. Lazarus, PhD, (Impact Publishers, 1997).
This short, fun, "amazingly helpful" book takes on
areas such as procrastination, rapid relaxation, meditation,
problem solving, apologies, panic attacks and anger, Rego says.
Steven Tovian, clinical and health psychologist in the Chicago
metro area
Tovian sees clients with clinical issues such as depression,
but also sees many patients with chronic pain. He recommends:
"The Pain Survival Guide: How to Reclaim Your Life,"
by Dennis W. Turk, PhD, and Frits Winter, PhD, (APA, 2005). Part
of APA's LifeTools Series. The book's structured approach-10 steps
to managing your pain-helps patients understand the treatment
of chronic pain and the factors that may influence their pain,
such as depression, anxiety and lack of engagement in daily life.
"Pain patients have a high rate of burnout, hopelessness
and depression, and this provides a structure for dealing with
those feelings," Tovian says.
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