Blog

Better Sex with Your Partner - What NOT to Say!

Would you like to have better sex with your partner? In this video I provide some quick advice what NOT to say, which will result in a better relationship, and yes, better sex!


Dating with E.D. - How to Talk About It (for Straight Men)

Are you afraid to date because you have Erectile Dysfunction? Don't be! I offer some excellent tips in this video for talking about it and finding the right woman!


Men: Here Is What It Looks Like to Break Free from Porn Addiction and Reconnect with Your Partner

Posted on January 20, 2017 by Aline Zoldbrod

I work with a lot of men who have gotten caught up in watching so much pornography that it interferes with their ability to be sexually connected to a partner they love. They find it difficult to be interested in being sexual with a real person.  They may have difficulty maintaining erections in a sexual situation.  Sometimes, they seem completely mentally and emotionally “checked out” to their partner during sex.  Sometimes, depending on a many factors, it’s very difficult to break free of the pornography/masturbation compulsion.

Read more: Men: Here Is What It Looks Like to Break Free from Porn Addiction and Reconnect with Your Partner

Straight Women in Love: It Is Critically Important to Resist the Tyranny of the Erect Penis.

Posted on January 11, 2017 by Aline Zoldbrod

I spend a lot of my working life working with straight women who no longer enjoy sex with their partner, even though they love the guy.  I more than occasionally run into situations where part of the culprit in the woman’s plummeting desire is the phenomenon that I have come to call “giving in to the tyranny of the erect penis.”

 

Read more: Straight Women in Love: It Is Critically Important to Resist the Tyranny of the Erect Penis

Sometimes Old, Learned Sex-Negative Attitudes Can Ruin Your Sex Life: Here is a technique for overcoming them.

Posted on October 10, 2016 by Aline Zoldbrod

I have spent my professional life trying to get my patients to loosen up, sexually.

One of the easiest ways to have erotic fun as a couple is to have the biggest possible repertoire of pleasurable sexual activities. That way, if one or the other person has a sexual quirk or a "sexual dysfunction" that makes whatever you think of as "normal sex" not be so easy to achieve, you've got a whole menu of other fun and delicious sexual activities to consider.

Read more: Sometimes Old, Learned Sex-Negative Attitudes Can Ruin Your Sex Life: Here is a technique for...

Page 1 of 5

individual

Individual Therapy

I will work with you one-on-one to help you define, understand, and solve your problem(s). I provide a safe, caring, and confidential environment.

Learn More >

couples

Couples Therapy

Feel free to join me with your significant other for some couples/marital counseling at my office in the Boston, MA and Lexington, MA area. I would like to help you and your "main squeeze" grow closer and enjoy a more fulfilling life together.

Learn More >

couples

Sex Therapy

I am well known for my success in helping residents in the Boston, MA area with sex therapy. Sex therapy takes guts. People wait too long to come in. I use a kind, thoughtful, targeted approach to helping you.

Learn More >

other

Other Services

You are unique. My approach to helping you will be unique too, and specific to your needs, issues, difficulties and struggles. I look forward to helping you address the issues standing in the way of a more fulfilling life (and especially a more fulfilling sex life!).

Learn More >

Dr. Z.'s Books

sex smart sex talk men women infertility sex smart spanish sex smart polish sex smart turkish

Meet Dr. Z - Boston Sex Therapist

about dr zoldbrod

Dr. Aline Zoldbrod is a licensed psychologist, seasoned sex therapist, teacher and trainer in sexuality, and author of multiple books on sexuality.

Practicing sex therapy in the Boston, MA area, Dr. Z is thoughtful and creative in her approach to help her clients gain confidence and overcome issues.

Dr. Z is a repeat author, including the award-winning book Sex Smart. Dr. Z has been featured or quoted in the Chicago Tribune, New York Times, Parenting.com, Los Angeles Times, Yahoo.com, Boston Globe, Ladies Home Journal.com, and in many other publications.